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How to Build a Strong Support Network: 3 Keys

Our social wellness plays a big role in our physical and mental health. Here are some keys to building a strong, quality support network.

By Hope 103.2 NetworkFriday 25 Aug 2023LifestyleReading Time: 3 minutes

I have been preparing for a major life transition into parenthood.

Part of my preparation has involved reflecting on my support network.

The changes set to come with the arrival of a new baby are huge.

The strength and quality of my social support will be key to a healthy start to parenthood.

The value of our social supports

It may not be surprising to hear that people who feel more socially supported have lower rates of anxiety and depression.

But did you also know that strong and healthy relationships help to strengthen your immune system, help you recover from disease, and may even lengthen your life?

Our social wellness plays a very big role in determining our levels of both physical and mental health.

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It is worth being intentional in how you can actively construct your social environment to build a strong quality support network.

What don’t I have a strong support network?

It is never too late to take action to strengthen the quality of your relationships and supports.

As we go through seasons of life, it’s normal for our social environments to change – people move away, commitments shift, and the support you require may change as well.

It’s always a good time to reflect on the support you are receiving and take steps to build high quality relationships that you can rely on.

3 tips to build a support network

Here are three tips you can consider for building a strong support network:

  1. Build a web of multiple relationships. One challenging aspect of building a support network is taking the risk to ask someone for support. Facing rejection or disappointment takes bravery! If you reach out to someone who is unavailable, try not to take it personally. Remind yourself that you have taken a courageous and worthwhile step to seek support, and don’t let this discourage you from sending a message to another friend. A strong social support network consists of a web of multiple relationships that we can fall back on, rather than a single person that we rely on. Reaching out to multiple people can help us receive the different types of support that we need. There might be certain times when we need practical help. At other times, though, we may need a listening ear, good advice or someone to have fun with!
  2. Prepare to invest time. Building deep relationships takes regular and frequent interactions – it takes lots of time! In our productivity-focused society, building relationships can fall off our priority list or even seem like a waste of time… However, planning to spend time to be with your friends is necessary to build deep and long-lasting relationships. Even if it doesn’t “look like” you’re doing very much!
  3. Cultivate authentic relationships. Developing deep relationships involves a reciprocal process of self-disclosure that can be likened to gradually peeling back layers of an onion. When we meet someone for the first time, they often see the more public aspects of our personality – our outer layers. Over time, we gradually disclose more personal parts of ourselves – our inner thoughts, values, worldview – and peel back our layers. Gradually disclosing deeper parts of who we are helps to foster deeper emotional connections over time.

Can I encourage you to think about one connection you can make this week to give and receive support?

Maybe there also is someone you would like to thank for the support they have given you in the past?

Article supplied with thanks to The Centre for Effective Living. Written by Lauren Chee.

Feature image: Photo by Hannah Busing on Unsplash